letting go…

In life, there’s many things that we have to learn to let go. We have to let go of situations, things, memories, people and even ourselves.

On the other hand, there are times where you or that person has changed to the extent that it’s necessary to let go of the relationship or friendship, so that each of you can fulfill your life path. Goodbyes make you think. They make you realize what you’ve had, what you’ve lost and what you’ve taken for granted. Saying goodbye may mean you never leave someone behind, instead you take a part of them with you and leave a part of yourself behind. Beginnings are scary. Endings are usually sad, but it’s the middle that counts the most.

True love doesn’t have a happy ending, because true love never ends. Letting go is one way of saying I love you.

Letting go of your past and memories are also extremely hard. Even though old memories can be tormenting, yet you might hold on to the past and refuse to move forward. However, by refusing to let go of the painful past, it’ll serve as a roadblock to love. Letting go of your old self and the process of letting the new you emerge can be one of the scariest experiences in your life. But by leaving behind your old self and taking a leap of faith into the unknown, it might just reveal what you are truly capable of becoming….

7 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Bon
    Mar 27, 2008 @ 10:10:23

    Sometimes there are things in our life that aren’t meant to stay. Sometimes change may not be what we want. Sometimes change is what we really need. And sometimes saying goodbye is the hardest thing you think you’ll ever have to do, but sometimes it’s saying ‘hello again’ that breaks you down and makes you the most vulnerable person you’ll ever know. Sometimes change is too much to bear, but most of the time change is the only thing saving your life.

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  2. Mhonchie
    Jun 21, 2008 @ 04:07:26

    but why it’s still here in my heart, is it i thought i already let him go or just to think im still prison in him.. yes, its hard to let go someone u love more than someone know. but trying to let him go is much painful to me, what should i do?

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  3. たけし
    Jun 27, 2008 @ 05:26:14

    Sometimes, there are just good things that never last no matter how you tried to help the situation. Sometimes, the only good thing left is just letting go. Yes, letting go is simple to say but it’s damn hard to do. But it is in this that if you successfully let go, you have conquerred yourself.

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  4. lailynvillaflor
    Oct 14, 2008 @ 06:42:36

    A song goes…”I’m leaving yesterday behind and fin’lly I made up my mind to let the mem’ries stay away and think about today. I’m leaving yesterday behind and now I fin’lly live my life once more, the way I did before…”This is really true, we have to move on and live our lives but we have to remember that what we are today is because of yesterday…

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  5. edward
    Oct 17, 2008 @ 03:39:45

    LETTING GO they say is the hardest thing to do…but I guess that the best choice that we have if we cant bear it any longer…Letting go is hard at the beginning but we realized in the end that letting go was just the right thing to do… Letting go of all the many things of this world i guess is also one of the things the good Lord has spoken in the Book of life. Sometimes we just have to let go in order for him to do the best things for us. Truly this also reminds us that nothing is permanent here on earth. for after all we have to let go of everything because we are returning to our Heavenly Father in Heaven…because this is where we all belong… Praise be the good Lord, our mighty creator and counsellor…

    Godbless to everyone!

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  6. bwillib
    Jun 11, 2009 @ 21:10:39

    ei pare, this is so true. i stumbled upon this blog of urs quite so delayed na (hehe), but still holds true…i mean, this is a classic experience, and will be relevant in any given time. relevant to me now. thats why.
    thanks!

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  7. soiebeans
    Jan 14, 2010 @ 05:30:38

    Letting go is one way of saying I love you.
    —palakpak naman tayo jan! it takes courage to let go of the person you want to be with for the rest of your life.😀

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