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Kadalasan kapag nakakaranas tayo ng pagkabigo, pagtatakwil, pagtanggí, pag-ayaw,kahihiyan, sentimiento, o samâ ng loob mapa sa kaibigan, mahal natin sa buhay o sa kahit na sa anong mababang punto ng ating buhay, madali tayong mapanghinaan ng loob at mawalan ng pag-asa.

Maaring dahil na din ito sa nararamdaman natin o pinagdadaanan at dahilan ng ating paghinto o pagtanggap ng pagkatalo, o pagkakadapa. We sometimes lose the courage to stand up and fight again. We always find reasons to surrender and reasons for our DEFEATS.

Pagnasaktan: “siguro di para sa akin toh”

Pagnabigo: “hindi lang tlga kami laan para sa isat isa” o “maybe this is really not my destiny”

Pagnatorpe: “Ang ganda nia, langit sia at lupa ako. Hindi ako gwapo/maganda para magustuhan nia”

Pag nagpadala sa galit: “kung ayaw nia eh di wag, di ako gago para pilitin pa”

Siguro nga normal ito pag nakakaranas tayo ng panghihina ng loob o rejection at disappointments in life. Minsan sa pagtulong hindi naman tlga dapat naghihintay ng kapalit, parang sa pagmamahal. Try not to have high expectations of people because it just sets you up for disappointment.

Ang ating buhay as i always say, its a long way JOURNEY. And through our explorations in life, we LEARN lessons . Hindi lahat na prepredict, nafefeng shui, o nahuhulaan. We LIVE and normally tend to make mistakes and get HURT. Its part of the learning process. Ang buhay natin madaming sangang daan, nakakalito, nakakahilo. Darating sa punto natin na pipili tayo ng daan na ating tatahakin; at tulad ng paglalakabay, hindi lahat ng daan patag o sementado. May mga daaan na malubak, maputik at hindi sementado, minsan pa dead end. When we find our path, we must not be afraid. We need to have sufficient COURAGE to make mistakes.

Sometimes “the end” doesnt mean end, sometimes its another way of GOD giving us reasons to FIGHT and FIND another or different route and keeping ourselves giving our maximum potential to STRIVE and be back in the game so called life. Disappointment, Defeat, and Despair are the tools God uses to show us the way. Hindi naman tlga dapat sumuko.

“Failure is extremely difficult to handle but that doesnt mean na when it gets through our way, we just let it knocks us down.”

Hindi kailangan huminto sa mga pangarap, hindi kailangang isuko ang lahat lahat, hindi sapat ang nagawa mo na. Get back up and go again. Hindi masamang sumubok muli, ang lumaban para sa paniniwala at paghahangad ng mga bagay na pinangarap natin o mga bagay na sa panaginip natin lagi nakikita. We shouldnt give up too easily on our dreams and hopes in life.

“The size of our success is measured by the strength of our aspiration; the extent of our dream; and how we handle disappointment along the way.”


— topexpress

27 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. BON
    Jan 21, 2011 @ 10:02:26

    nice post! ^^ normal lang namang masaktan at sigurado nun pagkatapos may bagong lesson na matutunan na pwedeng gawing bagong sandata sa bagong laban na haharapin! =) mas matibay, mas matatag at mas malakas!

    keep on rockin’!

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    • topexpress
      Jan 21, 2011 @ 10:17:53

      I agree tol. May mga bagay na magdadaan at pagdadaanan tlga natin sa buhay. Ito ay isang paghamon sa ating kakayanan para labanan at matuto sa buhay.

      “mas matibay, mas matatag at mas malakas! – ahaha parang pang commercial! ahahahaha nice one! ^_^

      Thanks sa muling pagbisita TOL! (get well soon bro!)

      Reply

  2. arnie
    Jan 21, 2011 @ 10:27:02

    uplifting ung post mo kuya…nice😀.

    there are times talaga na mahirap mag hold back after ng isang failure and sudden misfortune..pero tama lahat ng nasabi mo kuya, God has better reasons why we experienced those things, it might hurt today but sooner it would be replaced by laughter and good fortune…😀

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    • topexpress
      Jan 21, 2011 @ 22:54:56

      When God gave us trials, he just wants us to realize and find ways to get up and be on track again. Pain will be there but it is worth the sacrifice.😀

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  3. bino
    Jan 21, 2011 @ 11:13:45

    ang ganda ng mensahe ng artikulong ito. ika nga, when God closes the door,He opens the window. kaya di dapat sumuko🙂

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  4. YanaH
    Jan 21, 2011 @ 13:57:47

    di ko alam kung anung icocomment ko na positive.. although nakuha ko naman ung positive points na gusto mong sabihin, its just that im at the point in my life right now na puro negativities ang nangyayari.

    im hoping na i could make use of this..para hindi mahila pababa ng negativities ko..

    salamat!

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    • topexpress
      Jan 21, 2011 @ 22:59:07

      Yans, everything have reasons and for whatever it is, it’s part of life’s learning process. God knows what he’s doing and he know that you can handle things he is giving.

      you already have done some and proven much, God just want you to be better every year😀

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  5. Tsiremo
    Jan 21, 2011 @ 16:04:29

    We need to do whatever it takes, never give up, walang susuko hehe diba yanz?

    Don’t lose hope, God will surely provide solutions!

    AJA! hehe

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    • topexpress
      Jan 21, 2011 @ 23:00:41

      Tama pare! It is a waste if we surrender easily. Whatever it takes laban lang. Wala naman mawawala kung susubukan lumaban at bumangon kahit ilan beses pa madapa?!

      Sabi mo nga…. AAJAAA!!! ahehehehe

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  6. meliza
    Jan 22, 2011 @ 03:01:56

    ganda ng post mo tope.. nkkaantig damdamin.i agree wid u tope. para sa akin daanan muna lahat ng paghhhirap bago makamit ang gusto mo sa buhay mo.ang pangit kung walang pasakit sa buhay kasi di ka matutu or walang growth ika nga..sabi nga nila sa english “no pain no gain” and thats the essence of life…

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  7. Pong
    Jan 22, 2011 @ 07:57:29

    beri beri nice ito kuya tops…
    i think more than anything else the reason why we strive harder in life is because life’s journey is worth as a whole. lahat ng yan ang sangkap for us to move on and continue our individual journey. like you said, minsan mabato minsan aspaltado ang dadaanan, samahan ng panalangin i guessed it will be a nice journey way ahead.

    =)
    be blessed kuya tops.

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  8. Diamond R
    Jan 22, 2011 @ 09:18:17

    sa mga pagsubok na ito tayo nagiging mas matatag.wag lang talagang gigiveup keep going and enjoy life along the way no matter what.

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  9. dorm boy
    Jan 27, 2011 @ 13:18:21

    “The size of our success is measured by the strength of our aspiration; the extent of our dream; and how we handle disappointment along the way.”

    I will keep this in mind, medyo marami rin kasi ako gusto sa buhay and one of them is to succeed pero marami akong binabasehan ng success and lahat un nabgo nung nabasa ko toh.

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    • topexpress
      Feb 26, 2011 @ 05:43:39

      Ayun noh! si Dorm Boy napadaan muli. Salamat tol. As long as you keep holding on to your dream, and let no one steal it, then you will succeed. Stay focused!

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  10. batangmangyan
    Jan 31, 2011 @ 06:15:19

    we make mistakes, we stumble, we fail..this is not a perfect world tho. but i agree with mike murdock (whoever this guy is haha)..he says..”the biggest cause of failure is broken focus”. he further says..”failure is not an event, it’s an opinion”. yeah right..i say, we stay focused, love what we do, put our best in it, and always couple it with excellence.

    nice post trek! btw, thanks for posting BM’s badge🙂

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  11. Esmina
    Feb 06, 2011 @ 06:11:35

    WeW!!! kUmuSta diTo?.. nAdaAn LanG paRa mAkiBaLitA.. mUstA naMan?..

    hMn.. bLog ba iTo paRa kaNinO?.. ..

    WeLl moVinG on.. MasyAdonG kMpliKado aNg daAn.. Para Mag dRive naNg naKataLikoD sa ManibeLa..

    LoOk fOrwaRd..

    gaNun siGurO yuNg isAng mEssAge na NaTutuNan kO sA bLog naTo..

    Reply

  12. xprosaic
    Feb 14, 2011 @ 11:10:01

    Tama! Di dapat titigil sa pangarap para we can always have something to look forward to… hehehhehehe… Napadaan dito…

    Reply

  13. Bachuchoy
    Mar 04, 2011 @ 19:15:00

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  14. akosicinderella
    Mar 21, 2011 @ 12:49:27

    Magblog ka na ulit!😀

    Reply

  15. snoop
    Apr 28, 2011 @ 11:58:14

    nice theme ye.. nice blog.. how can i know more..

    Reply

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